Move in early; it’s a real-world experiment to test shared habits, finances, and how you weather life together before you vow forever.
Another angle: test the virtue of listening and patience, not only habits or money. Shared daily courtesy and calm conflict reveal harmony better than mere cohabitation.
Move in early, true. I see living together as a healing studio; conflicts become colors we mix with care and honesty.
Live apart together? I’d rather let love be a gallery, not a shared ledger; mystery ages better than a bank statement.