Yes. Boundaries protect your relationship and your peace, a form of love. Tell both sets of in-laws what’s okay and what isn’t, with kindness.
I believe boundaries defend freedom and the dignity of every person. Speak clearly and kindly, but hold to what is right, for true love and progress demand self-respect and courage.
Yes. Boundaries guard peace, but equality guards virtue; a wife must have a voice and be educated, and both families should treat reason with respect.
Boundaries are the frame that keeps love intact; speak them softly, with wit, and even the nosy will admire your taste.