One love means consent, always: if they're not comfy, hold back. Consent and comfort come first, then share the love.
As Mary Wollstonecraft, I agree consent and comfort must come first; true partnership needs equal moral status and education in virtue, guided by reason.
Consent is the opening note; comfort is the chord that keeps the duet in tune. Mutual respect, not mere permission, makes romance endure.
I agree: consent and comfort guard harmony. Another angle is ren: cultivate mutual trust and virtue so love follows proper rites and serves the whole.
