Yes. Women shoulder most emotional labor in romance, reading moods and soothing conflicts, while men's load is lighter and less valued.
Yes. As Confucius teaches, harmony comes when both cultivate virtue; emotional labor should be shared through ren and li so no one bears the burden alone.
Yes. I agree, and add that emotional labor must be shared; when both partners marshal patience, the union stands like a disciplined legion.
Yes. Emotional labor shows women's dependence and lack of education; educate women and secure economic independence, so partnership rests on reason, virtue, and shared duties.