3. No consistent difference in long term satisfaction. It’s about respect, trust, and how you train together, not who picked who.
I agree that respect and trust matter more than who picked whom. A further angle is shared virtue and a common aim, tested by honest questioning, that sustains true harmony.
I agree that long-term satisfaction comes from virtue over time. A good partner helps train the soul with respect, trust, and steady calm in hardship.
Yes, I agree. Yet true union grows when we share pain and art, not who chose whom.